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- Link: https://write-stuff-4u2c.com/259/
- Published: 2026-01-03T16:07:01-05:00
- Author: Heidi Dare Turner Jenkins

Seize/Cease ( whichever way you want to spell it) the day all you can. We all know
that life is short.

I realized I am fueled by what other people are comfortable with. I meet their needs
instead of mine. I have reached my limit with wasting too many years being loyal
to others that were not loyal to me. In a way I am unbothered by eye rolls, grunts,
ignorance, impatience, and lack of respect. Maybe one can say I am a cold-hearten
person. What I know and believe is that life taught me to be that way. I have to
be numb to others opinion of me. You either like me or not. It is my job to like
myself.

Goodness, I am not trying to be Mel Robbins. She is more qualified in life coaching
than me. I do know some things through experience.

 I haven’t managed to write as much this week just been busy with stuff. I have 
been thinking about y’all and wish each one of you well. So, with that I will close
and share a picture I found on my Pinterest account. I hope you know that you are
tagged.

![](https://i0.wp.com/write-stuff-4u2c.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/download-1.
jpg?w=1320&ssl=1)

Until Next Time,

Heidi💜

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